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  • Mar 28 / 2014
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Set Dating Goals

In order to achieve anything, you have to set goals. This is also the case when it comes to dating and to getting the kind of girl or girls that you want. You begin by defining long term goals as to what you want in a relationship and in the kind of women that you want in your life. Get out a piece of paper or laptop and write down the kind of relationship(s) that you want. Do you see yourself dating a number of girls or do you see yourself finding that specific someone. Perhaps you want to date a number of women for a while but eventually you want to have a specific woman to love and be with.

This brings up the point that you must also define and begin to implement your short term goals. If for example you want to date a number of women and be free and single for a while before you set your sights on settling down with one great girl, then this is what your short term goals are all about. Write down what it is that you want in the next few weeks or months. Get as specific as you can, going so far as to define detailed descriptions of the kind of women that you want to meet and how many. This can be anything from physical characteristics to personality, etc. Get as precise as you can.

Your long term goals are done along the same lines. Just try to imagine what it is that you want later in your life. You don’t have to settle down with one girl, that’s just my example. Look for the highest good or yourself. When you have defined this goal in your head, I suggest that you write this goal down just like you did with your short term one.

Well thought out goals are sort of like the road that will lead you to the success that you want. The more specific that you can be about what you want, and the better that you are at defining these goals then the easier that it will be for you to realize your success.

You can have the kind of relationship(s) that you want; all you have to do is to set goals.

 

  • Mar 02 / 2014
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Best Dating Tips

The web is overflowing with tips about dating. However, most of them represent the same kind of information, in a slightly-different format. Here, we are trying to break away from the norm and present practical dating tips that can increase your chances of having a successful date. This includes:

Keep Your Expectations Real: Don’t let your initial rush of emotions get the better of you when you start dating. You need to understand that people can be a bit different from the kind of persona they exude initially. Thus, ensure that you don’t expect too much out of your date. Allow things to take time and the real traits of your date to surface. Don’t expect every person to be the most educated, richest or blessed with physical beauty. Allow dating to pleasantly surprise you. Without having too many expectations, you are essentially allowing dating to be a bit explorative, mysterious and thus, more enjoyable.

Top Dating Tips for Him & Her:

Keep the Compliments Grounded Yes, it is usual for the guy to compliment the girl and on a date, it is accepted as a norm. However, try to compliment in a way that seems realistic. Don’t go overboard with your comments about her looks or outfit. Don’t make it seem as if you are complimenting merely for the sake of doing so. The same rule applies to girls who often compliment guys about their choice of wardrobe, overall personality or some fancy gadget. Compliments do the trick when they seem genuine, spoken from the heart and are used occasionally.

Don’t Just Talk, Have a Conversation:

There is a huge difference between just talking and having a conversation.

Dating somebody is essentially about finding a compatible partner. This means sharing a chemistry that puts both of you at ease. However, people often tend to forget this. They make the overall dating ambience get formal or just blabber about the everyday stuff. This is a mistake. Try to question each other about preferences and reasons for liking/hating different things. This helps to gain an overall perspective about a person. This might lead to small arguments but as long as the two of you are being spontaneous, it really doesn’t matter. This helps to lay the foundations of a relationship with honesty and transparency.

Tips on Dating for Guys:

Be Confident and Not Arrogant It is common knowledge that girls are inherently attracted to guys who exude a certain degree of confidence. However, there is a fine line between being confident and looking arrogant. A lady is least likely to be pleased with a guy who doesn’t make her feel special or seems obsessed with himself. To a certain extent, this applies to the ladies too. Yes, guys like coy women too but a basic degree of confidence, i.e. to be at least expressive, is necessary to keep the date interesting.

Successful Dating Tips for First-time Daters:

Keep the Conversations Light During the first, few dates, it is vital that either of you don’t ask questions that are too personal. The idea should be to put the other person at ease. The best way of doing so is to refrain from asking questions that penetrate into an individual’s privacy. This includes questions about sexuality, family details, past relationships or financial topics. Always try to bring some humor to the date. This is the best way of ensuring that your date doesn’t feel bored. This applies to the guys and gals. Simple jokes or humorous observations about the people around you always helps to break the ice and lightens the mood.

Good Dating Tips with a Universal Appeal:

Ending the Date Sensibly Here, you need to be a bit honest with yourself. Usually, guys are expected to confirm with the lady about the prospects of having a second date. Sometimes, ladies take the initiative. Either way, don’t plan things in this regard. Try to go with the flow. This means that if you feel there is mutual attraction, you won’t feel the need to confirm going out again, i.e. it will become obvious. If the sparks have been missing, just end the date on a cordial note. Try to say something pleasing that should indicate a bit of gratitude and having had a good time.

 

  • Sep 08 / 2013
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Strong enough to be her man!

The whole point of ‘Get A Great Girl’ is to find and attract a truly fantastic quality woman who is something special inside and out. That means she is not only beautiful, but she’s kind, she’s wise, and dare I say it, she even has logic.

Now, along the road to finding this kind of woman, you’re going to bump into a lot of the WRONG women.

In fact, you may end up meeting so many of the wrong women that you start to think ALL women are the same. This is similar to how so many women feel that ALL men are jerks.

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